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Mary's Moments Blog Post

Curveballs

  • Writer: Mary
    Mary
  • Apr 21
  • 5 min read

Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs, doesn’t it? One minute, you’re going about your day, and the next, you’re sitting in a doctor’s office hearing words that change everything. Whether it’s cancer, heart issues, or something else that stops you in your tracks, it can feel like the ground has shifted under your feet.


Let’s be real - it’s scary. No one signs up for this kind of news. The uncertainty, the questions, the what-ifs... it can be overwhelming. But here’s the thing: you’re still here. And as much as it feels like life has slammed on the brakes, you’re not out of the game.


You don’t need to have all the answers right now. Honestly, it’s okay to not be okay. Some days, you might feel like you can take on the world. Other days, just getting out of bed might be a victory. Both are valid. There’s no "right" way to navigate something like this.


Cancer and heart disease aren’t just singular conditions - they’re umbrellas covering a wide range of illnesses, each with its own challenges and treatments. From breast cancer to leukemia, arrhythmias to heart failure, every diagnosis carries its own weight and journey. No two experiences are exactly alike, but they all share one thing: they turn life upside down.


Understanding that there are many forms of these diseases helps highlight just how personal each path is and why every step forward in research matters.


Lately, I've been feeling a bit more reflective as two people very close to me (actually my parents) are facing some tough health challenges. One has just been diagnosed with bladder cancer, and the other has just dealt with a heart blockage (for the second time). A dear friend also recently shared that she too is facing a cancer diagnosis. 


A third family member faces a different kind of torment - the unknown. Their body whispers distress signals-fatigue that won’t lift, pain that shifts without pattern, symptoms that come and go like ghosts-but every test returns with no clear answers. The waiting, the wondering, the endless cycle of hope and disappointment is its own kind of suffering. Fear creeps in with every unanswered question, every late-night Google search, every moment spent bracing for bad news that may never come - or may come when they least expect it. The not knowing, the inability to prepare for what’s next, is a silent thief of peace, leaving one in a state of limbo where fear and hope exist side by side.


These struggles have shown me that there’s so much more going on in the world than we might realize, and it’s easy to overlook what others are going through.  It’s a stark reminder of how unpredictable life can be, and how important it is to take care of ourselves and those we love. Seeing them handle these difficult situations with strength has made me appreciate the little moments more.


Bladder cancer affects thousands of Canadians every year. It’s the fifth most common cancer in the country, and advancements in research are bringing new hope. Treatments are evolving, offering more options and better outcomes than ever before. Knowing that progress is being made can be a quiet reassurance in the storm - a reminder that there are people working tirelessly to improve the road ahead.


Hearing you’ve got a heart blockage is another kind of gut punch. It’s one of those moments where time seems to slow down, and your mind races ahead to every worst-case scenario.


Having a heart attack after a triple by-pass many years earlier is definitely a show stopper.  Stents and new medications......everything can feel surreal in these moments. Stent insertion is an interesting procedure. A catheter is threaded through the artery, a tiny balloon inflated, and then the stent put in place to keep things open. This enables the blood to flow again. The experience of this type of surgery can be a strange mix of fear and relief at the same time. It’s important to keep in mind that fixing the blockage is not the only option depending on the severity, sometimes medication can help in the interim. 


Regardless of what you may be facing, it’s important to realize that that in moments of crisis, there are solutions and people ready to help.


Day-to-day, people might say things like 'stay positive,' and while they mean well, it can be frustrating. You don’t need to put on a brave face every minute. Taking things one step at a time is what really matters - whether that means cracking jokes with the nurses, binge-watching your favorite shows, or simply sitting quietly with your thoughts.


It all counts.


It might not feel like it right now, but every time you face the unknown, every time you show up for another appointment or take your meds or simply breathe through the tough moments, you’re proving your strength.  It isn’t about pretending everything is fine; it’s about facing each day as it comes.


Even when it feels like no one could possibly understand, there are people who care - family, friends, even strangers who have walked similar paths. Lean on them. There is no shame admitting when you need a hand.


Most importantly, hold onto hope. It doesn’t have to be grand or loud; sometimes hope is quiet. It’s in the small moments - a deep breath, a kind word, a sunrise. It might flicker, but it’s still there.

So, take a minute. Breathe and take one step at a time.

 

Exciting Progress in Cancer and Heart Disease Research


There’s a lot happening in the world of medicine right now, and it’s giving people facing tough health challenges more hope. For instance, new treatments that harness the power of the immune system are showing promise in helping the body fight off serious conditions. Some researchers are even developing targeted therapies that focus on specific markers in the body, making treatments more personal and potentially more effective.


Another fascinating area is the gut microbiome - basically, the community of bacteria living in your gut. Turns out, these tiny organisms can impact how well cancer treatments work. Some patients have even had positive results combining immunotherapy with something called a fecal microbiota transplant (yes, it’s exactly what it sounds like), giving doctors a whole new angle to explore.


On the heart health front, there are new medications originally created for diabetes that are now showing big benefits for people with heart issues. These drugs not only help with weight loss but also reduce the risk of heart attacks and improve kidney function. Health Canada recently approved one of these drugs to help prevent heart attacks in people with existing heart conditions.


Of course, access to these new treatments isn’t always equal across the country. Researchers at the University of Ottawa Heart Institute found some major gaps in who can get what medications depending on where they live, highlighting the need for a more balanced system.


The bottom line? Science is moving fast, and there’s a lot of smart, dedicated people working on better treatments every single day.


While the road ahead might feel uncertain, there is real progress being made.

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