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WALKING AWAY

Ever walked into a room and felt the mood shift, like stepping into a conversation you weren’t invited to? I’ve been there. Once, I joined a group of friends mid-laughter, and it didn’t take a detective to figure out the joke might’ve been at my expense. It stung.


Instead of letting the hurt weigh me down or turning it into a big scene, I took a deep breath, brushed it off, and moved on.


I came across an article about this the other day, and it brought those awkward memories rushing back. Funny how often these moments sneak up on us, isn’t it?


It wasn’t the first time I’d been in that kind of situation, and sadly, it wouldn’t be the last.


I once had a friend I thought was in my corner, someone I could count on no matter what. We’d been through thick and thin—shared personal stories, late-night chats, and endless inside jokes. But then, I found out she’d been telling my struggles to others, using them as fuel for her own conversations. My tough times became her talking points.


That moment hit hard, but instead of wallowing in the hurt, I made a decision. I quietly stepped away from the friendship, no drama, no angry words—just a simple choice to let it go.


If you’ve ever been disappointed by family, you’ll know exactly what I mean. I’d spent years putting in the effort—always showing up, always lending a hand. But when I needed support or tried to set some boundaries, I was met with resistance instead of understanding.


For a long time, I stayed in that cycle, hoping things would change. But eventually, I had to face the truth: some relationships are one-sided, and holding on to them does more harm than good.


Walking away is never simple. It’s complicated, emotional, and at times, it feels completely off. These are the people you've cared for, relied on, and made memories with. But here’s what I’ve learned: staying in toxic relationships keeps you stuck in pain, while letting go frees you to move forward.

It’s not about holding grudges or being angry. It’s about knowing your worth and protecting your peace.


When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. Instead of replaying every moment, wondering what I could’ve done differently, I’ve learned to accept what is.


Some people aren’t meant to stay in our lives forever. They’re there for a season, and when their time is up, it’s okay to let them go.


Letting go of the wrong people creates room for the right ones. The kind of people who celebrate your wins, support you in tough times, and respect your boundaries. These are the relationships worth investing in - the ones that bring light and joy into your life.


Choosing to walk away isn’t about giving up; it’s about standing up for yourself. It’s recognizing that you deserve relationships built on mutual respect and care.


Does it hurt? Absolutely. But that hurt is temporary. What comes after is peace - peace of mind, peace in your heart, and peace in your life.


At the end of the day, life is too precious to waste on relationships that drain us. Walking away isn’t always the answer, especially with close family or those we’re responsible for. But even in those relationships, it’s okay to set boundaries and prioritize your well-being.


It’s about balance - knowing which connections are worth fighting for and which ones need to end.


Walking away is hard, but staying stuck is harder. The good news? When you choose peace over drama, you open the door to something better.


So, if you’re holding on to a relationship that no longer serves you, ask yourself: is it worth the cost to your peace? If the answer is no, don’t be afraid to walk away. But remember, even the people who hurt us teach us something valuable. They show us what we don’t want and remind us to set stronger boundaries. For that, I’m grateful.


So, to everyone who’s been part of my story, even the tough chapters: thank you. You’ve helped me grow. I realize that some relationships are worth working on and knowing when to make that effort is just as important as knowing when to let go.


I don't mind struggling with you but I will not struggle because of you.



In the end, it’s not about who you walk away from, but about who you choose to walk with.

And I choose to walk with those who bring love and positivity into my life.

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